Writing a story can be easy if it is about your personal
experience, like a memoir. You know everything that happened, you do not have
to look anything up, or try anything new; just sit down and recall everything you
can and put it into words. Some even write about their journey as they are
having it. But as an author, why would you use all of your experienced parts of
life, unless you were just going to write an autobiography? Yes, you can use your personal experiences for a character who goes through
something similar to what happened to the author/yourself. Or you can change it
up and add or subtract parts to make it more or less exciting. It all depends
on what effect you are going for, but the problem with using experience is trying not
to overdo it. You can abuse experience quickly if you are not careful.
When
writing any kind of piece, you want to use experiences to help you write
something more correct. One can write something completely imaginary but when
doing so, one must make up everything and not just some parts, because then it
will confuse the reader and they will not be sure on how this should be
presented. But when you want to write something new, that maybe you have not
experienced, it is best to research it or to try the part of the story you want
to write. For example, you want to write a story about someone who is a daredevil. For one, you probably are not one yourself -- you might be, but not
everyone is. So for the events you want the daredevil to present, you will
need to go out and try some of them yourself. That way you are able to describe
the feeling the character will have when they are doing these actions.
By
always writing with experience, people can get bored with the same stuff all
the time, because everyone has experienced school, a crush, rejection from
friends, disappointment from parents…and so on, so by everyone writing almost
the same stuff, no one will want to read it. Or even if you are an author and
all you write is about one event that happened in your life, just with
different characters and how they handled it, you will most likely lose your
audience quickly.
This
is the problem with experience, it can be great, and it can be terrible. You can
never estimate the piece until the last word is written, so try for something
different sometime; use research to write your piece instead of experience. We all
need something different from time to time, so why not take the advantage that
is given to us?
~Kelsey

You're right in that it can become very boring if you write about the same experience over and over again. It's like in the episode of the Big Bang Theory shortly after Howard comes back from space and he's annoying everyone because he's constantly talking about it in the entire episode.
ReplyDeleteHowever it does help to have some experience in the area of what you're writing or if you talk to some people with that kind of experience so you can think about how one character might react as opposed to how another might.
Like you do say to it is also good to change up situations because if you don't you can get some cliches in the process.