Showing posts with label trust. Show all posts
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Wednesday, October 22, 2014

Author and Audience: A Friendship Saga

The friendship between an author and their audience is one that is extremely important. Although they may not necessarily know each other, they have the same makings of a friendship: trust, appreciation, dedication, and respect. These four things are the foundations of a great relationship and ensure that both the author and audience can both enjoy what they contribute to the friendship.

(1)    Trust is arguably one of the more important foundations because all of the best relationships are built on trust. The audience trusts the author to deliver what they like, and the author will trust the audience to tell them what they want to see in any future writing. The author also trusts that their readers will not only keep reading, but also to recommend their novels to friends and family, and to continue loving what they read. There are people who are dedicated fans of George R.R. Martin and in no way shape or form trust that he is going to keep the Starks safe. What kind of way is that to live?

(2)    Appreciation helps with the moral of both people. When the author feels appreciated by their audience, they are more likely to write to make their fans happy. When the fans are given what they like, they feel appreciated by the author and continue a circular motion that continues for as long as the relationship does.

(3)    In J.K. Rowling’s final Harry Potter novel, she had thanked her wonderful fans profusely and dedicated the book to them. Dedication to the things you love creates a bond with people you may have never met, just like how Mrs. Rowling feels increasingly grateful for all of her fans. Because of the dedication they deliver, the fans are one of the most important people in an author’s life, because they push them to dedicate their own life into their writing.

(4)    Respect is also another very important aspect to the relationship. People want to be able to read something without having to feel like they are being treated like they are dumb, or that they won’t understand anything. Authors don’t want to be treated that way either, but would rather be treated like they aren’t children. Do not insult the person who is writing, because low self-esteem can lead to things being written that shouldn’t be.

“Friendship- my definition- is built on two things. Respect and trust. Both elements have to be there. And it has to be mutual. You can have respect for someone, but if you don't have trust, the friendship will crumble.”

― Stieg Larsson